Here's how me and my boyfriend met:
I actually really liked this guy named Josh, and we'd been flirting and talking for a long time, and he'd been my best friend for a year or two before that, but he had a girlfriend. I had just gotten out of a relationship with an abusive guy. So one day I was going over to Josh's house, like I do almost every weekend, but his girlfriend was going to be there. Keep in mind, ALL me and Josh had done was talk and flirt, nothing else.
I told him I didn't want to be a third wheel, so I probably wouldn't go. Not to mention how much it hurt everytime he kissed her.. But I'd never tell him that.
Josh's best friend's name is Kyle. I'd only met him once or twice, when I'd been over to Josh's while he was there.
So Josh, always seeing the world through a pair of rose-colored glasses, said that Kyle would be there. To me, that didn't make the situation any better. I didn't really like Kyle, I hardly knew him, and I told myself I didn't think he was cute(lies.) And I told Josh that I didn't want Kyle.
So that day, we all hung out for a couple hours, and it was just like I thought. I was on the outside looking in at the happy couple, and I hated the way I noticed that they were absolutely perfect for each other. Kyle and I pretty much kept our distance from each other, things were sort of awkward even.
But then we got back to Josh's house..
Kyle and I were sitting on the couch, watching Youtube videos, and we both had our feet up on a chair. When our feet touched, he said, "Jeez, Katey, your feet are freezing!" And I laughed and we carried on, and then he grabbed my legs and put them in his lap and started rubbing my feet. Needless to say, from then on, I was head over heels for him. Only real men rub a woman's feet.
And then we kept getting closer and closer, until we were kinda cuddling. And then before I knew it, we were kissing.
I still felt uncomfortable hardly knowing him so we kept talking and texting and all that for a week or two and then he asked me out and I happily said yes. We've been happy together ever since.
Kyle is probably one of the greatest people I've ever met. And after just getting out of such a bad relationship, he's what I need. He treats me like a princess, which is something sort of new to me. And it feels great. He's really smart and funny and adorable, and everyone always comments on how cute we are together, because we're super comfortable around each other.
Kyle would be the best option for ANYONE because he's not afraid to be himself(which I love) and he'll make you laugh so hard you can't breathe. He always stays close, and he knows when you need to be comforted, when you need space, when he needs to kiss you. He's really sweet and I noticed he's very modest in everything he does; he's not cocky. He's super smart and can actually carry out a great, interesting conversation. But he's way too special to me to ever let him go, so ladies, go find yourself a different one!