SEX- is the first thing that most would suggest, but there’s other ways to cheat on a mate, “with invested time of one’s emotional state.1
SELFISHNESS, well, who couldn’t say that, aren’t we all prone to take and assume; like a foolish rat? 2
BOREDOM- is perhaps “undoubtedly true; “for when some are with the one they love then they can love the closest one to them too!”3
FEAR- can be a factor of a traitorous heart. It takes a lot of “self-love, and courage,” to be faithful from the start! 4
THE EGO- can be a factor, when challenged or goaded for sure; ones with “big egos” need plenty of attention, no matter who (or what) is the lure…! 5
EXCITEMENT-, well this certainly is a factor! But why throw away a meaningful relationship, for a moment, when after it’s lost you can’t get it back…6
TROPHY HUNTING- would mostly work for those who have showy friends; the kind of people that “it’s hard to be real and honest with,” in the end. 7
FEAR OF GETTING OLD- is perhaps why some may cheat. When the opposite is really the case; sexual energy can be easily spent, but never quite replenished that way…8
Author notes
Recently the New Zealand TV news discussed the growing problems of men who cheat on their wives. Some ignorant announcer suggested that if responsibilities (between husbands and wives) were shared equally among equals that this wouldn’t be a real problem. Well if that’s the case, then what about Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston, “at the height of both their careers…?” The fact of the matter is “even among equals” there are always unequal balances and events that can “topple the power of equilibrium and flip one mate or the other off the scale” of normality. Besides, other than for “society and family sake” who really gives a damn; other than “the eternal creator,” God…!
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Brilliance held my soul in passion!
Dearest Milly a timely message of sex passion love and loving
I recently heard on the television that Jennifer Aniston
Has been advised to come to Chicago to find a new mate
They told her One Magnificent mile is the golden place
Seems faith is lost when the other half strays
Who will catch your heart when you fall?
Having faith in love is what love is all about
Glory in the courage to stand tall
Time has shown me many things
Mixed gardens of azaleas faded
A rocky climb to uneven ground
Thankfulness’ for sharing your thoughts
I greet thee pondering the same things
Once in a lifetime we find true love
Heaven sent from the creators’ hands up above!
Namaste Blessed Be, if ever you need me, please feel free to call.
Many blessings to you and yours beyond the oceans of black-eyed Susans.
The intensity of the young lovers is mega force powerful in words unspoken.
Where does your heart rest when the chain of love is severed in shards broken?
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Gee Beth, how horrible for you to have to live with such dishonesty! And yet, there always seems to be at least one parent that fall short, in this arena; whether it’s unfaithfulness or not. Personally, I always thought my folks were honest; but as I got older, I found that their lives were built on flimsy illusions as well; even though “they weren’t unfaithful to each other,” as such.
Thanks so much for your “honesty” in sharing and opening up, for that which much be “so painful…!” I’ve really come to value you and appreciate your open and forthright ways…
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and hugs~
~Milly
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I adamantly agree with you, Chris! Although, the “ever shifting values of society have sunk to the level of legalising prostitution and promoting x-rated commercial-” on New Zealand’s air-waves! All-the-while, implying to our youth that “it’s not ok for them to do such things,” till they're legally of age.
In the name of legalization, this nation has sinned against human decency and defied the laws of a healthy civilization and “the golden-rule.” Consequently, some take it very serious when the affect of the media proselyte’s a traitorous act of adultery! Perhaps this is a way “murder is on the rise,” of crime’s scale. Thanks for your valuable input, friend; it’s much appreciated..!
~Milly ~
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You’re absolutely right, LastingEmber, “men cheat but I’m sure that women do it probably as much!” The real issue, as I see it, is the covering and order of command; I mean to say: “whatever’s at the top does filter down…" Although, when the unfaithful are tempted to cheat, they never consider those underneath them (or around) that will be affected; supposing that, if they’re careful, no one will know…
Unfaithfulness has “a deadly bite” and can be the ruin of a nation; rather more like traitors than citizens, anyway… Thus I’d rather not say that God is the cure because most (including myself) have a bad taste about this concept; due to the vast majority of religionists who “pollute the name of God” for their egotistical end… However, I do know the answer lies with the supreme One! Thank you for your “$.o2; it’s much more valuable than most, who have lost theirs!
~Milly ~
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WOW... This is an awesome point of view Milly... Cheating is the reason my parents got a divorce... My dad cheated on my mom the WHOLE time they were married (for 14 years) and I have a feeling he may be cheating on my stepmom but I dunno... Anyways... I'm really glad you posted this!!!
Hugs,
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Sex is the temptation few are able to resist. We can be unfaithful to others, to principles, to anything that is rightfully one with or attached to our essence and all this is a challenge for the dark to destroy. But one has to make sure blood remains in the brain to continue to think clearly, considering matters beyond general consensus or legislation, both of which are as ignorant as the ones who blindly comply with all the ever shifting values of society. But the use of genitals is more popular than that of the brain. What horror that leads to can be seen at every given instant all over this world. But I guess blindness is more common than many care to believe. Thank you for ceating and sharing this consideration; I hope it does make many do the same. Take care, precious one,
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If God gives a damn, maybe we should too. i think women cheat on their husbands, i dont know if it's as much but i bet it's almost equal. all we hear is the men hype. and by pushing the issue is it making it worse? do more men have the courage to go out there and make with someone else? i know cheating has always been a problem but divorce is a sad word that often comes from cheating and someone has to do something to make things better and make this stop. that's my $.02
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