What Is All About Love...

Love is all that matters…that’s what most people say when they are inlove.  It’s always been a good feeling when cupid strikes!  But then everything about it has to go on different level, different aspect, and a lot more to deal with.  Love starts at home, how you grew up with it, which is very important because a big part of one’s personality will depend on it and mold you upon growing up, a very big factor from your relationship with others.  When you open up your heart to another that’s not part of a family but your opposite sex and learn the other way around about love and get hurt because you need to know that love always followed with pain otherwise it wouldn’t be love at all and that’s where complicated things in life begins. 1

There are different levels of maturity when it comes to love, of course aside from boys and girls or teens stuff we go to a more mature relationship and from there you exercise everything that concerns compatibility which also involves different aspects of personality.  I’ve been through a lot, and I learned the true meaning of love and what life is all about, it’s a continuous process though … and it’s really a trying-hard time when you knew what you want but you couldn’t just have it. 2

All of these were based on how I really feel or look at every little thing that happens to me.  I’m just an ordinary girl having fantasies that keeps me inspired and from that I could let myself away from misery for a while and continue dreaming of my lovely “Knight”.  A totality of a woman is being treated like a “Duchess” and if we can’t have it in real life then we’ll do it by fantasizing and dreaming to make us happy for a while, and sometimes we make it a pattern, that’s where the “soulmate” thing starts.  For me, you really wouldn’t know if this guy is your soulmate but then when you really like or adore him you can build something from there by telling and convincing yourself that he is your soulmate, beginning on simple things like you both have the same thing which is rare or you both like doing things such as that or from the feeling itself that you both have for each other.  You know, our self-determination could do or create things possible especially if both parties agrees and jive on what they really want.  I’d say women wanted to be like the main character of a love story novel they’re reading or from a soap opera they keep on watching everyday. 3

Man and woman are both aiming for a good partner in life and for the right one to be with them for the rest of their lives.  On my very own, I would say, there’s not even a right one for anyone.  Just be the best of what you can do to make things right. When you love someone say it, tell him right there and there and no turning back, you have to deal with every little thing without any regret because you made a decision and that’s it.   Patience for me is the key for a successful lovelife.  To add, it is a never-ending showing of affection like it’s always be your first time together, excitement and thrill should always be there and try to search and do new things to spice up your lives.  Partners should be supportive of each other’s in any way and they should know what they want.  Another one that is kinda’ heavy but needed when you really love someone is the word “sacrifice” to end up with  “unconditional love”.4

Special day such as Valentine day is something to come up with surprises for lovers since it is a very special day for all the hearts and soul out there, although others may not due to some heartaches but the good thing for this day is… it’s not exclusive for those lovers only, it is designed to share all the love in the world and that makes the world go round!!!5

I just hope you could come up with something and help you in a way, all the facts stated above were based on my own experienced being a partner and a mother, and lessons I’ve learned along the way.6