Boy/Men probs

first off, background. Now when I was in the third grade i had a crush on this eighth grade guy named Keith. I like Keith so much that when I found out he liked chocolate milk, I got chocolate milk every day at lunch and borught it to him. Let it be known that I have lactose issues, but I loved to see him smile. And then one day when all his friends were upset about him eating so much and drink my milk he said, " A man's got to be healthy and strong" then he winked at me. I mean come on and he was like Chris Pine cute. But then I found out he already had an eighth grade girlfriend, then I became " like his kid sister" ( which he still calls me to day) and instead of a wink i got a pat on the head. From that day on I swore off older "men"


Well needless to say odler guys seem to be the only ones who appreciate me. All my bfs have been "my age" but they were stupid and treated me like crap. I was second to their xbox or car. But like every time I go and hang out with my friends out of town, these college guys will talk to me. this weekend we revisited chattanoga. This guy name Leslie has been so sweet. He works at this coffee shop called Grey Friar. He remembers how I like my coffee and gives me a pepper mint straw. Well anyway this past time he asked me about life and it led up to boyfriends

me: no i'm single. I just got out of bad relationship. We didn't click and he didn't care for me

him: Then he's dumb. I'd love to have girl like you in my life

me: aw, thanks leslie. You're so sweet

him: I would really like it. And I'm ready for commiment and not afriad of where it will lead

me: (still not getting it) Man i wish guys back home were like you. Your girlfriend is lucky

Him: (sexy "bad intentions" look) I don't have one maybe you can change that for me

me: (still fucking dense) As long as you help me with mine. We'll support each other

him: ok Here. call me if you ever feel the need for a real man( leaves table; break over)

me: (walks away smiling. gets all the way to care and chatting with friends until it hit) Oh, shit!

So I really like Leslie. He's a cool guy. The only problem is we live five hours away and he's 19 going on twenty. BUt like he'd come to visit me and I could spend my WHOLE spring break with him. I"m so pissed that i can't have a guy like this who's with in my range. It's so fucking frustrating. I trust Leslie to make my coffee and i think I can trust him to be the guy I want and need. But I don't know if it's worth sacrificing this moral I've had since nine.

I'm so angry and confused This should be easy and it's not. I want things to be easy. :LIke I wish I could tell him to wait till i'm legal. I mean it's less than a year....almost. And we can get to know each other better in that time. But I don't want to put him in an awkward position. And here's the catch what if he was just playfully flirting and not like actually wanting to date me and I just imagined it all. Not only would it be embarassing if i was wrong, but actually asking for clarification would be so uncool. why aren't these things in black and white. ( side stepping the fact that he's austrailian)

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