Okay this blog/journal thingy is mainly for girls to read but if you’re a guy I GUESS you can read this too.1
So I’m starting high school this year. Like all the other normal teens, I am nervous outta my wits! Not because of teachers or friends but yes, the opposite gender. BOYS.
I don’t know why, but I am very nervous around boys. I EASILY blush when one of them is around or talking to me. well…usually if they are cute. If not then I’m alright. Hehe.
Anyways, my mom says it’s because I’m shy. It’s strange because on the internet on sites that I go on I search for guys but in reality I hide from them. not literally.
My mom says that in high school you grow more confidence so I won’t be so nervous. I think I have enough confidence.
Does anyone know what I can do to stop being so nervous? Please help! and thanks for reading.
Xoxoxxx kisses are better than hugs
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well everyone goes through this.. I'm starting college, and I'll prbly be looking too!! There's nothing wrong with blushing around guys because they either don't pay that close enough attention to notice or if they do, they'll think it's cute. And be sure you keep things friends first, relationships later. Don't like someone COMPLETELY because
my sophomore year, i like became obsessed with this guy and he took advantage of that... not that we did anything. He just took all the things i gave him (simple stuff like chips and drinks) but he would never talk to me... Once I called him, and one of his friends then called me and told me i was being psycho... let's just say that i didn't like that guy after that. lol
and don't assume they like you, because some guys are naturally nice but that's it.
good luck
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thanks thats really good advice!
xoxoxo
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at camp this year, the ymca camp ravencliff, i never expected anyone to like me.
let alone leave me to help someone who was a total slut get herself back, come back, and make out on the bus back home for four hours.
he really helped me be comfortable around boys, and i hope you can find someone who understands. -
Boys suck
I'm starting to notice boys too, but they are really jerks, I wouldn't get started with them and work on schoolwork and friendships. If you end up lucky and find a nice guy, start with friendship, don't go right for it and end up getting teased because of it. Girls will ask you if you like boys, don't say yes even if you do, they just want gossip. I do "Eye candy" secretly I look at a cute guy, I can go for the whole year and barely even talk to him, just look. I'd be slow and smart with it, now like my friend Bre. Dont trust boys over your friends and dont talk about the boys you like all the time, it will slowly make you trust the boys, who suck, more than you do your friends, who rock. Boys will pretend to like you and tease you behind your back to his friends, they will embarrass you and they will make you cry, friends wont. If you have to take advice from your friends or the guy you like, always take your friends.
So, in conclusion, focus on school and your friends, look but don't touch, if something does come along, start with friendship and remember that everything happens in good time.
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haha thanks! hehe boys suck? i guess so. you convinced me! LoLz
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Hmmm...well when I started highschool, boys were the LAST thing on my mind. I focused on my classes and extracurricular activities. What I do to this day is if I see a cute boy, I act like he isn't there. It keeps me from blushing or doing something embarrassing. I figure that if a cute boy has the guts to talk to you, then he's worth your time. Now, hf he just walks past and pays you no mind, then he obviously isn't someone you should be interested in.
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thanks for the advice! you know i usually do pretend they r not there (but i dont stop blushing!) haha my life sucks sometimes.
LoLz
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