Help me!!!

Okay, so my bf just dumped me yesterday but I still love him(obviously, it always takes me at least 2 or 3 weeks to get over an ex) and then I love this other guy. I've loved the other guy longer than I've loved my ex. Ugh!! Liking two guys at the same time is just so confusing!( especially when one of them isn't even talking to me anymore because of the bad relationship) The other guy, I still talk to, but it's an online thing and we never officially dated or anything. ( plus, he's like 3 years older than me lol and taken) But, he's one of those guys who is such an optimist and I love that. It's like even when he's sad, he's happy.( if that even makes any sense) He's so funny and uplifting, and he makes me happy too Then, there's my ex. He's extremely smart, but an asshole. All he does is complain and why I even liked him in the first place, I have no clue. I guess because he's cute, smart, and athletic. But, he lacks niceness and common sense. Well I guess I'll end this, just wanted to get my feelings out.

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  • awww poor u!

  • Hi!

    It doesn't really seem that you're looking much for help. I don't know if I could offer much help if you were.

    What I'd suggest is that you get involved in things to take you mind off the guys for a while and let it sort of work its way out of your system. Then, with a more objective perspective, consider the available guys. If one doesn't suit you, then focus on other things until a guy comes along who interests you.

    Andy

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